True Love Stories: Cheker and Soledad

What’s even better than a sunny wedding photoshoot of real-life couples, you ask? The true love stories that brought them together!

Step behind the scenes of our Pasadena Courthouse wedding shoot and meet Cheker and Soledad — two roller-derby sweethearts whose love led them from D.C., to Southern California, to a stunning Joshua Tree elopement.

Pictured: CEO My Darling Dress in Navy and A Chic Start Pants in Navy

How did you two meet?
Soledad: Cheker and I met in Washington D.C. playing roller derby in 2010. We were Teammates, Derbywives, and Co-Captains before we decided to finally listen to our hearts and start dating in 2011. Cheker was offered a position in Southern California and asked me to move to the Golden State with her and her pup. We drove cross country with all our belongings and little Devonshire and haven’t looked back. It was definitely the best decision I ever made. We have been inseparable for almost 5 years now.

What do you value most about your relationship?
Cheker: I value our true partnership in everything we do together.

Where did you elope and why?
Soledad: After we first got engaged we started the initial process of planning a more traditional wedding. The more we discussed center pieces and guest list the clearer it became that a big wedding wasn’t for us. We wanted to celebrate the commitment that we were making to each other and we wanted to do it our way. We had vacationed in Joshua Tree the year before it was so peaceful and the scenery was breathtaking; we knew it was the perfect place for us to elope.

Cheker: We eloped because we wanted to keep it simple and about us.  We chose Joshua Tree because we fell in love with the scenery and the calm atmosphere while we were up there for a mini vacation last year.  Cell service and internet was spotty at best, so it forced us to get away from the everyday hustle and bustle life and focus on each other.  It reaffirmed that Soledad is the “one” when we removed all the distractions from the picture. We were both glowing and enjoying each other’s company while exploring and watching the perfect sunset.  By the end of the night, our faces were sore from smiling and laughing so much.

Photo by The Colagrossis

What inspired your wedding-day style?
Cheker: We wanted something a little bit out of the ordinary but somewhat casual and comfortable.

Soledad: I knew I wanted to wear a dress for the elopement. Since we were having an outdoor ceremony, I knew it had to work for the desert, but I didn’t want it to be too casual. I saw my dress online and wasn’t sure if it was right, but my gut told me to order it anyway. When it arrived, I knew I was going to love it before I took it out of the box. The color was perfect and it had the right amount of fluff for a good twirl, but not enough to pick up every burr and tumbleweed in the desert. Paired with a great pair of boots and a statement necklace it was the perfect outfit for the perfect day!

Do you have a “song”? What is it?
Soledad: Whitney Houston’s “I Want to Dance with Somebody.” We hadn’t really talked about a song. We were in line to enter the park when our friend asked what our song was. We both looked at each other and shrugged, and she said if you don’t have one you should pick one quick. I grabbed my phone and “I Want to Dance with Somebody” was the first thing that popped into my head! Luckily, we got to finish it before we lost cell service.

Photo by The Colagrossis

What was one wedding detail that was singularly ‘you’?
Cheker: My collar pins. I was so excited to wear them! We also woke up early that morning to go to the Joshua Tree farmers market for flowers.  We knew it would be a hit or miss depending on what the florist would bring that day.  The flowers were the biggest unknown we had and I knew it was going to be a perfect day as soon as I saw Solie’s eyes light up at the assortment of unique flowers.

Soledad: We asked a teammate and dear friend to officiate. It was also really important to us to have Pippa, our Boston Terrier, present.

How did you celebrate afterwards?
Cheker: We kicked off our shoes and had empanadas and cake!

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Photo by The Colagrossis

+Stay tuned for more real love stories from the stars of our latest wedding shoot! In the meantime, check out the second installment of True Love Stories and find more big day inspiration in our wedding boutique.

About Katie

Catch Katie perpetually stressing about finding the time to see every movie on her growing to-watch list. Some of her favorite pastimes include car-belting to ᗅBBA, using her dog as a pillow, and just makin' sure everyone's having a good time.

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  1. Roni 05/11/2016 at 10:02 pm #

    Beautiful couple. I’ll probably think of them every time I hear “I Want To Dance With Somebody” now, and that’s pretty cute. 🙂

    • Katie 05/15/2016 at 11:10 pm #

      I’m definitely going to do the same, Roni! 🙂

  2. abby 05/15/2016 at 1:48 am #

    Soooo sweet! They caught my eye, what a beautiful couple!

  3. Kristen 05/16/2016 at 9:28 pm #

    Crying!! I love LOVE and feel so chuffed to see people from my community being honoured with so much care. Cheker and Soledad: all the best to you! Modcloth: xoxo

    • Luisa 05/17/2016 at 12:50 pm #

      Same here, Kristen! This made me so happy.

  4. Tonja 05/17/2016 at 3:34 pm #

    I am so impressed ModCloth had the courage to profile this awesome couple!! My daughter is gay and I am so proud of her! It is heartwarming to see a lesbian couple portrayed in such a positive light. They are a gorgeous couple and I am so incredibly happy for them!! Cheers!!

  5. Hannah 05/17/2016 at 4:00 pm #

    This is honestly the best thing I could have seen today. Thank you for including this front and center in your marketing. Their sweet story is inspiring and those clothes are ON POINT. Thank you so much!

  6. Cassie 05/17/2016 at 5:31 pm #

    ModCloth, you’re awesome. Thank you for this couple’s beautiful profile. I will be sending you more business in the future for being such a rad company. <3

  7. Ali "Muscle Leanie" 05/17/2016 at 9:23 pm #

    I recognized these women instantly from having played against them in roller derby! These are the most amazing photos and they look so happy! I am glad to see ModCloth feature a same-sex couple on their webpage.

  8. Alicia 05/18/2016 at 1:45 am #

    Thank you Modcloth for supporting same-sex marriage! And for increasing lesbian visibility! This made my day! <3

  9. Ramona 05/18/2016 at 6:10 pm #

    Three cheers for Modcloth! Representation matters! I teared up seeing a queer couple on your homepage today! I turned my computer screen to my sweetheart and said LOOK! Thank you!

  10. julie bouchard 05/18/2016 at 8:11 pm #

    This is awesome. Modcloth has my respect for showcasing diversity in all forms.

  11. C 05/19/2016 at 6:25 pm #

    what an absolutely adorable love story and great pix! thanks for sharing 🙂

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